Another Waw

[Refuse to quit]

Well things went good yesterday. I took the wife her favorite candy when we exchanged the kids. I had it in my car under some of the kids clothes and she went and grabbed the clothes and saw the candy underneath and got the biggest smile on her face. I told her it was not for me and that I had done it for her to let her know I was thinking of her. She smiled at me, winked and said thank you. I kept the whole conversation on the kids even though I wanted to talk about the R. I didn't. I was so proud of myself. When dropping them back off to her, I could tell she had gotten her hair done and told her it looked really nice. I thought it was odd that she kept smiling at me so I did the same to her. I backslid a tad and asked her why she got her hair done. She said it was because she wanted to and that it had been a long time. I asked her "you did not do it to look nice for me?" She said "no." I said "not even a little bit?" She said "no." Oh well. I shouldn't have asked. But still kept things positive and after when she was leaving I made a point to open the car door for her. She seemed to really appreciate that as well. She told me "I don't know if I trust you." She said this on her own without me saying anything. I said "what do you mean?" She said "I see you do things that I really appreciate but am not sure if you are doing them for me or if it is just to get me back?" I told her time would tell. Any ways it all seemed pretty positive. I know that this would be viewed as chasing as I have said before, but it seems to be getting to her so I would not say that it is a "cheeseless tunnel." I will keep it up (the small things here and there to let her know I am thinking of her) it seems to be working a bit. I used to do this stuff a lot when we were dating years ago. Any suggestions?
RTQ