Our kids are out of town this week...should I try kind of going dark? For instance, be gone when H gets home from work, no phone calls, etc. to try & get him to be interested.
OR
The thing that happened recently that got the most positive response was to plan a family day for Father's Day, we all went fishing & had a picnic. Kids & I were catching a flight later that night to head out of town so I had bought some frozen pizzas, coffee, etc to tide him over while we were away. I had the kids make a card that said - We'll miss you & sign it...I signed underneath saying I hope you have a great week. Then I ran back in the house when we were in the car getting ready to go & had it sitting out for him to see when he came home.
When he dropped us off at the airport, he gave me a hug (the first physical contact he has initiated since Feb.) He then sent a text saying he loved the artwork when he arrived home to find the card.
This should tell me that maybe I should do a nice act of service for him, don't tell him & maybe just go out GALing shortly after he arrives home?
Now mind you in MC, he says even though I've changed, he still has no feelings for me. Just wondered if I should do a complete 180 - going dark.
Me 36, Him 33 M 11yrs, T 15yrs S 8, D 7 ILYBINILWY - 1/09 H moves out 10/09 D to be final SOON I HOPE!
