Anyway I was out the door before 6 am this morning so no contact. Who knows what's going through his head?! He didn't deny saying to her the other day that he didn't want to work on our marriage. He just said "see that's what happens when too many people talk about things." So based on his comments that I told you about this weekend and what he said Monday night I'm assuming he doesn't want to work on things - unless I hear differently from him.
WRONG.
DO NOT FOCUS ON WHAT HE SAYS; learn to focus instead on what he DOES.
Big difference, and I'm not saying everything he's doing is positive right now either. But it's a very common mistake for LBSs to focus on what their running-away spouse is SAYING, when it's usually just so much fogbabble. A simple example would be wayward spouses who keep shouting "I want a divorce!" or "I'm going to file for divorce!" but then they never do.
The saying around here is "Don't believe anything they tell you, and only half of what they do." There's a lot of truth in that.
