I have been married for almost 10 years known her 12. I have been taking anti-depressants for about a month now. I constantly drank all the time and was basically in my own world. My wife stated that I paid attention to my daughter on my time not hers. I have been in counseling for about a month now and marriage counseling about two months but my wife stated she would not go back until she saw some changes from me. I realize I am unhappy and need to change. She has mentioned about my behavior for several years and I was too stubborn to do anything about it. I would let alcohol handle the emotions of my situation instead of going to marriage counseling. I hope she gives me another chance to show I can change.