Is this a mid-life crisis?

[mvgolfer]

I am really sorry to hear about your situation. I am sure you are feeling really anxious and sad right now.

Sounds like it could be MLC, or MLC-related. Nothing is ever simple! I too, am in a very similar sitch. Have been trying LRT, but I have caused some set backs. My H keeps vasilating between moving out or not. Now, looks like he will indeed move out soon. We are in C,(only a couple of times, due to scheduling)but he says he thinks it would take too many C sessions - or years of counseling, and he doesn't seem to want to do that, or make that comittment. I think perhaps he wants a different lifstyle..not sure what but just not what it is now.

It sounds like you have a counselor, which is is good. Get and read MWD books, or other books on this subject. And if you have friends, family, trusted co-workers, pastor, etc you can rely on, seek them out so you have someone to talk to. Try to excercise, get out of the house..walk, drive, go see a movie. It is a scary time, esp. when this happens and you least expect it. I am still dealing with extreme anxiety, grief and shock. But it does seem to get better with time.

Try to focus on your self right now and take care of yourself as best you can. Keep posting!
marsh