Puppy Dog Tails - I will look into those books, thank you. I do however want to finish the DR book first. Counseling was talked about, but we have been busy as we just moved. I think I might want to bring that back up again.

ShockedOne – I feel you. It’s like she says, “this is what bothers me”, but then when I try to change in order to accommodate her needs, it seems to backfire and another stipulation is added. I am really just starting to try and work on myself and go back to what made her fall in love with me in the first place.

Gucci loafer – yeah, at that time I was in a state of panic. My wife actually called my Dad and had him come over to talk to me the first time I asked for a divorce. She didn’t want one, but thought it was happening. I hate I ever asked, but it happened and now I have to deal with the consequences. I love my wife and will do what it takes to get her back. I want to keep our family together.

Gardener – Thank you. I will look into “Quotes on Divorce Busting II”. I think I did already, but I will look again. I know I wrote a bunch of them down and keep them with me (which I read quite often).

....I think right now I am just going to concentrate on working on myself. Then I think I can be a better husband (and father). I am still having an issue with Trust a little bit, but I really am working on just getting over it and knowing that even if she is talking to someone else, I have her now and need to make the best of it. Will trust ever truly come back 100%?


-Kane00