Nothing eventful last night. Really had little contact with him. Just went downstairs once to tell him dinner was ready because of course no one can take any initiative to get dinner together at my house (I stayed after work to workout at our gym). It wasn't anything fancy but at least everyone ate -albeit not until 8 pm!
I went to bed early because I had the worst headache last night plus I knew I was going to get into work today at 6:30 am because I need to leave early for a 2 pm counseling appointment. At one point, he came upstairs - stood in the doorway (he may have stepped in - I was kind of out of it) and then turned around and left. I sat up in bed because I could feel someone's presence - not sure if he saw me or not.
Anyway I was out the door before 6 am this morning so no contact. Who knows what's going through his head?! He didn't deny saying to her the other day that he didn't want to work on our marriage. He just said "see that's what happens when too many people talk about things." So based on his comments that I told you about this weekend and what he said Monday night I'm assuming he doesn't want to work on things - unless I hear differently from him.
I will get into work early tomorrow again because I want to try to get on the road tomorrow at a reasonable time. So looking forward to vacation! I will not be asking him if he's coming down for the 4th weekend. My assumption is that he will not be which is just as well at this point.
It will be interesting to see if there's any contact from him while we're gone. I will only contact him if there's an emergency. At this point, I'm feeling like I need a break from him and all his negativity.
