Seperated

[LitlHopeAlwys]

Remembering a little more of Sunday's conversation -

W had said she wants to take some of S3's toys with her this week to her mothers. Asked her why, she said because he is only here 4 days out of the month - every other weekend. Told her well that was what was agreed upon with lawyers and visitation. Looking back that was a bad answer - I got the well you know you can always call and come and get him whenever I want.
Talk about being in shock at that point - think the only reason I never did was for fear of her complaining that its not my time to see him and telling me that I can't.

Other part of this conversation was that she wants to come over during the week this week to straighten up and clean the house up. Not that its a mess - she was unhappy with the amount of toys that S3 has out in his bedroom and playroom.
OK, I will admit I could've straightened them up put them away, but that is his mess, and to be honest the mess kinda gives me a sense that he still plays there all the time.
Rest of the house is neat and clean - I guess taking care of the rest of the house and all the yard work isn't enough - she complained that I have time to go bike riding.

Looks like anything I do she will find a negative in it for something - try to follow her wishes - she finds fault, and on the other hand go against her wishes would seem like pressuring her.