Hi Mat, How are you? All settled yet from the move? Those are so hard.
About a week ago I figured he had gotten the papers, so I called him about some tax returns. He had not gotten the papers, so I let the cat out of the bag. I was so hoping for him to find out about it by mail! Anyway he seemed a little surprised that I had filed. WTH??? I have not talked to him since then.
He and OW are still going strong.
I talked to a friend yesterday. Her husband told her that my H thinks I will get her to testify for me. Sounds like he is trying to stir things up. My friend told her H that Yoyo has never even said anything about me testifying, she hopes to settle all of this without a hearing. My friend said she was thinking to herself, with all of the info from the OW's divorce hearing that would be enough testimony. If you recall the OW's exH hired a PI and had video of their "meetings" at her house overnight.
My H earlier told this same man he didn't see any way they could remain friends as long as Yoyo and your wife are friends. He just wants to be able to bring his OW around them at their lake house. He thinks that the H will forbid his wife from being friends with me I guess. Doesn't matter, my friend can't stand the OW.
Oh well, just goes to show you how crazy the WAS are!!!! I'd say my stbxh is in a full blown MLC!!!!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon