"I've seen several former & current WAW's on this board...does anyone know of any WAH's?"
I don't know of any.
The C session was not bad. I don't know that I would put a lot of merit into him asking to meet again in a week.
I still think that you should focus on the fact that he is still there. Act as if still applies.
Even if he is acknowledging that you are changing that is not always a good thing. He could think you are changing the wrong way and just not saying anything. Just as you have learned that you can get caught up in the "Emotion" he is too. The "Emotion" colors everything you "see" and "do". It narrows your scope of view on things. If you want a perfect example of that look at some of the interactions that me and Sandi2 had back in the day.
I used to use the analogy of a GPS system. You know you are driving along and it is guiding you to your destination. Then you turn off the path it is recommending. It has to recalculate. That is what your H is doing right now recalculating. Sometimes the GPS will take the long/wrong way. Sometimes your H will to. You are still in control of where you are "driving" in both situations. DB'ing is a tool for you.. just like the GPS. Used correctly it will save you time. Used incorrectly it will have you recalculating too.
You have a lot of good things going on. Focus on that.. and figure out why and how it is working. Then keep doing it.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
