It's a good news bad news type of scenario. Looks like I'm going to get an offer for the place that's 185 miles away. It's an attractive offer as it's about a 10% increase from what u was making before.

Problem is how will I see my boys and continue to DR/DB. Or do I just give up working on the relationship and only see my boys every other weekend?

This is a TOUGH decision

Anyone run into this situation before?

Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13