Will he ever be the man I thought he was? Am I wasting time on a bad relationship? If he came to me tomorrow and said he wanted out, I'd let him go.
I do think you have to look at past history, and that doesn't look good for him. If things stay the same as they've been the past years, would you be happy living like that the next 30 or 40 years?
I do think people can change but until they do I think you have to expect more of the same. I do think you can always reevaluate in the future, was he to truly change and make long-term changes... Karen