D1 was doing well this morning. She had a toy bottle she kept sucking on, and then she pretended like she was going to hand toys to other children and when they'd reach for them she'd snatch them away and laugh at them. She played for a bit, I held her a little while, and then I left. I saw/heard W but she didn't speak to me.

I'm still trying to figure out what happened yesterday... her attorney just shook her head and smiled while we picked her apart using the questions I had given my attorney. 90% of the questions he asked during deposition were from the list I had given him. He didn't ask any of the 'pointed' or 'gotcha' questions because W was freely hanging herself.

Each time she made some wild allegation about me her attorney quickly looked towards me for a response. I acted disinterested and sat there taking notes. It is almost like W figures a divorce is about trashing the other spouse and who has the most trash talk. Maybe her attorney told her the deposition was where she could trash me all she wanted and say whatever she liked? Didn't matter if it made sense or not... she sounded like a vindictive fogged out spouse who had no idea about how her behavior has affected others.

When asked if she had any regrets about her marriage she said "I regret drinking." My attorney said "What about your affair?" She said "Oh yeah I guess that too..."

Even after admitting she had sex with OM in December, in February when I busted her with the P.I. she stated "I was only going there to hang out and I knew I was being followed and I don't know what the big deal was." My attorney said "Didn't you have sex with him in December?" She said "Yeah..." like she is trying to piece it together rationally.

Her attorney will be filing for a continuance. Up to the judge whether or not he grants it.

Trial: 12:00:17:15


"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."