What are the simple questions that I need to answer? I have read DB and trying to get a life without depending on her for happiness. I struggle every day with inner conflicts of how to approach the situation. Do I sit back take care of myself and see if she notices? I really want to the save the marriage and know I need to change myself. How will she notice that I am changing when I don't even speak or see her? I believe she is in an emotional/physical relationship with OP and I am not confronting her about it. I am just taking one day at a time. Any help would be appreciated.
You will feel like you are on a roller coaster of emotions. GAL, and PMA are very important. Enjoy the ride, sit back and take care of yourself? Sort of - You do have to take care of yourself and detatch - there is an excellent post about it here - Detatching. Your W will notice the changes that you make in yourself with out you speaking to her. Don't try to point them out, she will notice every little change, you will be surprised by how observant of you she is.
Me 35 W 30 S 3 M 7 : T 13 yrs Separated 2/20/09 My Story
