You are absolutely right, and I'm on the path you hint at in your reply. (see response to Sandi) One thing I'll add is that I plan on letting him know that the only thing I won't do is bury my head in the sand in hopes that it will go away, and won't let him, either. But, he needs to take the lead on this, and I'm glad to follow, as this is his responsibility/role in our M. I'm an eager supporter of his decision to get this done and handled.
Thanks for chiming in!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
