Ya, this is a big one. It's funny, though. It doesn't faze me as much as it should. I've learned through this BOMB process that physical stuff just isn't that important. So, this can be fixed.
My plan is to get my homework done for the CPA, cc my H on all of it, and then sit him down and tell him exactly what I'm thinking about this stuff. Do we need to sell our house and downgrade to something simpler? No biggie. Do we need to change some lifestyle habits? No biggie. Do we need to pursue a loan? No biggie.
The only biggie is it eating away at H/us. So, let's do what we can to ease this stressor.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
