What are the simple questions that I need to answer? I have read DB and trying to get a life without depending on her for happiness. I struggle every day with inner conflicts of how to approach the situation. Do I sit back take care of myself and see if she notices? I really want to the save the marriage and know I need to change myself. How will she notice that I am changing when I don't even speak or see her? I believe she is in an emotional/physical relationship with OP and I am not confronting her about it. I am just taking one day at a time. Any help would be appreciated.
