I think you may be right. I've been thinking along those lines tonight. I go from crying to pure rage when I think "H doesn't deserve me."
H came to the door a few minutes ago and asked if I was going to hurt him tonight. I don't know where he comes up with this stuff. I asked H if I had ever hurt him in the past. Response: no. I asked have I ever hurt ANYONE in my life. Response: no. So then I asked why would you think I would now? Response: I don't know, you're just so upset.
No sh!t sherlock!
"Gee, husband, I'm sorry that my response to your adultery is so unsettling to you. Sleep well; I'll be here, in the kitchen, next to the knives if you need me."