To be honest Blue Star, it sounds like you have made your decision that it's over and you are just waiting for an excuse to end it. If after 5 yrs you think he is still playing away emotionally and you can't handle it then surely enough is enough?

I don't quite undetstand what it is you are looking for from the boards. We are here to save our M's are we not and yet you sound like you are looking for easons not to save it......or am I wrong?

Tell us what is good about your H? Why have you tried to keep things going so lomg? There must be a reason.


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength