ditto what confused says. She sees this guy once a year and for all you know, he told her "it sucks out here in the dating world" and btw, is HE M? Don't assume the worst or mind read negatively.
Besides, even if he's some great guy in her dreams, talking to him for two hours often DISillusions those of us in la la land. Seriously.
Last but NOT least, you have NO control over this. So why spend ANY energy on what you cannot control, and zero energy on what you CAN? Work on what you can work on, you know like the Serenity prayer...
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.
j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
