Here you and totally understand. I want her to be comfortable and to really open up this time. She has expressed that if/when we go to MC she wants to go to a different counselor. I'm pretty sure it's because our MC has been my IC for the past 4 months. I understand that and told her that we could find a different person for MC. Kinda sucks because the one we have now is very good and really believes in making marriages work. I'm going to ask him if he has any recommendations for a different counselor. I'm just trying to approach this with a lot of caution and as cool as can be. I don't want to pressure her or spook her in any way. Slow and steady....
