Mdoodles...
Just finshed readingup on your stitch. My only advise for you is to keep doing what you are doing. It seems to me that the things that you have been doing is working. Your busy, your focused on you, your focused on what you and your son need, your looking towards the future in ways of a new place to live and a job. You are doing everything right. Keep it up. As for your H and the OW, it seems to me that even though you are stilling dealing with it all that it has taken a 'backburner' to everything else that you are dealing with. Maybe that is the best for you at this time. You are not exactly letting go as much as you might be letting loose of it all. I know exactly where you are coming from about not wanting to let go. I have not been able to let go either of my stitch but I have been letting loose of certain things. Keep doing what you are doing. It is working.

P.S. About the calls....you can always see if it is on your phone bill that you did not make those calls if it really comes down to having to prove it to him that it was not you.


Me-31
Him-28
D1-9
D2-6
Married 5-06
Seperated 12-07
He filed 1-08
Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08
Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09
Filed for D 4-28-09
Trying to make a go of it 6-09