I think Puppy (as usual) is right. Your H is acting like a jacka$$. And you can't do a thing to stop his behavior. What you can do is control how it affects you.
Let go, and work on you. It is not easy, at first. But you will gain peace by doing that. You will also give you H more to think about.
Oh, and no reason to thank me. We are all here to help each other.
