Let me tell you what you would tell me if I posted what you had just posted.
You need to detach. She sees this guy once a year. Don't start making it into anything more that that. Hopefully it isn't so why waste your time and energy on it.
Continue to work on yourself and become the Stuck that only a fool would leave.
Hang in there.
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13