Wow... I think MC gave mr. HVA something to think about by bringing up that he didn't think you could change...
It is irritating to think that they're just sitting around waiting for feelings to come back without doing anything to bring the feelings about.
Me - 30, H - 32 T - 10, M - 6, D - 1 DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2 on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10) Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011