I would be okay with that. Even having flowers sent to yourself, or leaving a phone # out on the counter for her to see -- any of that stuff. Just not lying.
k. one side note, she doesn't live here and hasn't for over 3 weeks. she's not coming back anytime soon if ever. although she did say she will be back in town july 7th. i think i'm going to be real "busy" that day lol, and not even contact her. i know it will be one FULL MONTH before her next scheduled meeting back here in town. she would have no other reason to come back during the monthly meetings for her work.