Well, I'm new here; I got the bomb on May 23. I got the "I'm not in love with you and I'm questioning my life speech." I try to live every day with a smile and I look for happiness anywhere I can find it. He's moving out this weekend and I'm really scared. He says he's been feeling this way for over a year now (didn't tell me) and he's not attracted to me anymore and feeling ambivalent about the marriage. I'm headed to my counselor this evening and he saw his today. I know this is going to be such a long journey back. I never expected or wanted this in my life and NEVER expected it from him. He had a terrible childhood and was 'programmed' to have this implosion. I sure wish I had known!
M 47 yrs old H 42 yrs old Married 20 years No kids
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
