nc, you know darn well if you DO say know, you'll get her rath.. BUT I do think it was wise that to answer her right away.

Its amazing to me how inconsiderate (and that's being nice) she is towards you, and then expects you to cater to whatever she needs/wants, like everything is fine!!

Ya know it is ok to say no. At this point, what if you had something going on, she doesn't know you don't so I wouldn't worry about her thinking your being vindictive or mean, she already thinks that (im sorry for that, but she does already have this in her head) You want as much time with the boys as you can get, and THAT my friend is what this is about, NOT her.

when you do have the boys it is your time period.

I might sound harsh, but its not about her feelings, or what she wants, its about continuing to build your relationship with your boys.

Anyways, Yes we are going to try and watch the first movie and see what they think of it. We are really looking forward to the new Ice Age movie and of course Harry Potter (which im desperately waiting for !!) I actually have only read the first book and im now on the second one, but ive seen every movie about 50 times!

Have a good day, and take care!


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
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porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.