thanks everyone. i have been doing more things, scheduling more thing, getting out more and getting together with friends more...my friend actually just left, i invited her with her baby for dinner, her husband travels alot for work so we agreed to do our dinner weekly.

and it is true that the busier u are, the better all around.

this is a process and i have many setbacks.

im juggling so many things that sometimes it feels like our actual marriage is on the backburner due to the financial problems with the house, the store, his lack of a job and his debt.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09