After I asked the question I knew the answer. I guess if I am doing it because I truly want the divorce it would be, but if I am doing it to get her to face the edge of the cliff and make a decision I am being manipulative??? In that case I guess I haven't 'dropped' anything.
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline
