Your H said/did the basics that a lot of other mlcers/was do
1. they deny OW mine denied OW for 2 years until I found a lease agreement 2. They move out taking very little mine left in a few large plastic bags with clothes leaving a 4 bedroom home and everything in it 3. they say we are in denial they dont understand why we are being so nice? 4. they spend a lot of money..they will create huge debt so be aware and protect your credit, property, investments, bank accounts 5. they lie about everything under the sun do not expect any truth from him at this point6 6. they refuse MC or they go for a few sessions then stop saying they M is over and they tried but it cant be repaired 7. they say things you will find someone better I never really loved you or you really dont love me anyway and will be better off they rewrite history to suit their new purposes
I would also find a support group or therapy to help get thru this this isnt your fault this is a crises you cant change it And CHANCES ARE HE WILL HAVE TO RIDE IT OUT db helps you and helps keep the door open while your H tries to figure it out
they say NO R talks--it wont help no begging whining crying in front of the MLCer It takes time but you will see then deteriorate they run in replay for a while 1-2 years then you see it the crash they lose it all and they never find the happiness they seek they are miserable mine is a lost soul st this point peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
