I meant to add in my most and Cat said basically what I was going to about the sex thing. I know that people would differ in advice and it is still something I am struggling with myself. Do I or don't I? Up until now I have "allowed" it because it is a connection and I do want to maintain any connection I can. But now I am waffling a bit about that and whether I should set up a boundary there. I guess you kinda have to do what seems right for you.
