W's attorney didn't object to a single question. W basically was handed a long spool of rope and proceeded to hang herself for the entire deposition.
She made lots of the abuse allegations but couldn't even narrow it down to a specific year when pressed for a timeframe.
Some of them (rape) ended up being "Oh one time I don't remember when but I said I didn't want to have sex and he made me anyway."
The "drowning" thing came up and she said "Yeah I was in the bathtub and my head was under the water and he came in and yelled that the phone was ringing." Basically as I stated in my affidavit...
So... she admitted to her A... started in December 2008 (prior to our separation) according to her testimony today. She stated she has had sex with him between 5 and 10 times. Said she did in the marital home as well.
She did the whole "I wanted to get out of the M before I even got pregnant" spiel under oath as well... which has to speak to stability.
She lied (provably so) about all of the questions regarding her mental state. She doesn't know I have her entire journal... and she doesn't know that she contradicted her own words (badly) with her testimony today.
To finish us off... "No we'll depose H some other time."
Her attorney told me "pleasure as always."
W has basically given me the evidence I needed to prove my fault grounds... and right now just waiting on the psychological evaluation to be actually done.
What a puff of hot air yesterday was...
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
