BND, Take a huge breath and get ready for new adventures. Things happen for a reason and it's time for a new beginning in another area of your life. Your marriage is new once again appears to be on solid ground, so now it's time to begin anew in other areas.
Are you willing to relocate? If so, where does he have in mind? I thought you were looking at Florida a while back.
I know that things have been tough for you, but may the good man upstairs is trying to put your focus elsewhere for a reason. Sit quietly...the answers will come.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.