I said on Friday that I had thought about filing because I had seen it work for someone else. Then I was talked out of it and pretty thought that would not work in my case.
Then this weekend my W confirmed that she is refiling and I knew it would not work. So I decided that this time I am not signing a waiver of service and I am hiring an attorney to defend me and go after my rights. I am not filing for D on W. I am DBing but preparing for probably the inevitable. I'm just not going to be pushed around or threatened this time by my W. I made the no contact rule myself for DB purposes. I will keep on DBing until it is over. I'm just guarding myself as well and my kids unlike last time.
Thats all.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...