Need to really make changes for me (thread #3)

[mdoodles]

interesting. i like that u arent telling him.

i tried the high road too, in that i didnt respond to her, but i did tell him about it.

maybe u are right, dont tell him either, that way she freaks when she gets zero reaction. i like it.

keep us posted, make sure if u decide to consider working things out again that it is what u want to do, remember, just last week u were done with him...

i know its so hard, im in it with u. u waited for him to be serious, maybe he is.

make sure u set the necessary boundaries and be firm with them, that they are deal breakers. let him know right away what they are, and that u are at zero-tolerance, if u choose to work things out.