Your H is just so very near-sighted. Like Mr. Magoo, he's walking into danger not realizing he puts his whole life at risk. Moreover, there is so much more at risk in his life than he realizes. And he just doesn't quite understand what his priorities should be. Unfortunately for all of you, he seems so much like I was in that he does not give himself time enough to reflect and to think on these things -- if he did he might wake up.
