The filter is a good start, that way you can read the emails when you feel ready!
Can you start looking for a job? Keeping busy for 8 hrs out of the day helps
Me - 30, H - 32 T - 10, M - 6, D - 1 DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2 on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10) Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011