Kevin, I feel for you as it’s the same sort of thing my W, did to me before I found this site. She wanted to make sure I was strong and doing well before she dropped the bomb about moving out and into OM’s place. So, keep protecting your Ds and yourself and keep working on getting stronger for them.

"The Lord is my light and my salvation – who shall I fear? The Lord is my stronghold of my life – of whom shall I be afraid?" Psalm 27:1

Me-44
WAW-42 (ILYBNILWY)
S-16
S-14
M-10/17/1992 T23
Met OM 10/10/08; Bomb 12/27/08; Moved in with OM 01/27/09
Me stronger and happier everyday!