I'm going to go along with the couch thing though, since he is paying for the living room set, flat-screen tv, and fancy washer and dryer that he had to have when we moved to the house on his own. It's cheaper for me to pay an extra $20/mo on my furniture store card rather than have to split his bill...
Me - 30, H - 32 T - 10, M - 6, D - 1 DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2 on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10) Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011