Thanks for the support! You know... the situations where he's asking the questions... I'm not really handling things that much differently. I would ask him his opinion, and give mine. Sometimes we went with his, sometime mine. Now, I'm really just going with his opinion, or/rather agreeing with what his opinion is.
The pushiness that he saw in me was when I had an idea, event, opinion on something, and he didn't really agree with it... H would either never really give me an answer. So, I would bring it up again. Really, not with the intention of pushing him into the idea, event or opinion, but moreso to get a damn answer! I don't mind a no, not now, or differing opinion (MUCH! LOL), just tell me instead of evading me! So, he would not answer, I would say something again, and he would say I pushed it on him. And, so the circle goes...
We haven't had a situation like that lately, so I can't 180 that.
Maybe he'll feel like he's not being pushed if I keep going with his opinions on things we need to decide in the meantime... Who knows!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
