K4D Rising #2

[K4D]

Ok. I will make sure they get counseling.

Poor D7 got hit in the nose by a boy yesterday. The leader saw it and the boy got in trouble and had to apologize to D7. But D7 did not want to go back to the rec center today because of it. I told her I would talk to them but that she has to go and she can't stay at home. I felt bad for her.

As far as my C goes, my C told me to start journaling every time I am with my daughters and my mind starts to go to my W. He said journal the circumstances, what I am doing with my girls, what is going on exactly when my mind starts to wander. So that is my homework for this week.

I'm going to go to this codependents anonymous meeting tomorrow night and hopefully I can get some good stuff out of that.

I haven't heard from W since I picked up the kids Sunday night. I don't plan to either. I have taken myself off of IM so I don't see her.

I'm still praying for the best but preparing for the worst.

Kevin

[davidswife]

When are you seeing a lawyer?

[PMA_Baby!]

I'm going to go to this codependents anonymous meeting tomorrow night and hopefully I can get some good stuff out of that.

Best thing I've ever read on your thread.

Keep it going.

PMA

[K4D]

DW, when W refiles is when I am planning on hiring a L.

Thanks PMA.

Kevin

[volleydog]

DW, when W refiles is when I am planning on hiring a L.

Thanks PMA.

Kevin

I think that's a mistake. I think you need to have your ducks in a row before you get the papers.

[PMA_Baby!]

I agree. You just said you were 'preparing for the worst..." That is why you need to see a lawyer asap. You need to know your rights so you can set boundaries.

[K4D]

I already had a consultation with my L. I know what my rights are. I'm just waiting for the actual refiling and then I will pay the retainer fee.

W just sent me a text saying she changed her cell phone number to a local dallas number. It was a Florida number previously. She told me what it was incase I needed it.

Kevin

[Puppy Dog Tails]

and how did you respond? HOpefully with no more than an "OK, thanks."

[K4D]

I didn't respond at all. Should I have responded?

Kevin

[volleydog]

no...maybe a thks, in a few hours.