The problem with these things is that they practically beg for mind-reading. Essence of cheese down otherwise cheeseless tunnels.
So don't mind read and make it a productive exercise. "Wife when you are ready I want you to clarify for me some of your points in your note. I just want to make sure we are communicating in a healthy way."
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
