Divorced and really scared.

[dday101798]

Well, I am certainly no expert in this area as I did not have the opportunity to descuss the R with XW all that much and when we did, I could not and do not trust someone who says they love you so so much, but yet tore you and your family limb for limb all for the sake of some "new and exciting".

So, I'm just trying to tell you to stop allowing him to come get what he wants, and then run off "stressed" or whatever the excuse may be when you want to work on the R aspect that he clearly is not willing to discuss.

What I would say, the next time he pulls the "come here, come here" card, you stand your ground and lay down boudry that he discuss the R defore he high tails it away again.