Ok. I will make sure they get counseling.

Poor D7 got hit in the nose by a boy yesterday. The leader saw it and the boy got in trouble and had to apologize to D7. But D7 did not want to go back to the rec center today because of it. I told her I would talk to them but that she has to go and she can't stay at home. I felt bad for her.

As far as my C goes, my C told me to start journaling every time I am with my daughters and my mind starts to go to my W. He said journal the circumstances, what I am doing with my girls, what is going on exactly when my mind starts to wander. So that is my homework for this week.

I'm going to go to this codependents anonymous meeting tomorrow night and hopefully I can get some good stuff out of that.

I haven't heard from W since I picked up the kids Sunday night. I don't plan to either. I have taken myself off of IM so I don't see her.

I'm still praying for the best but preparing for the worst.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...