Because he know he can. I went through this treatment with my XW for quite a while until enough people pointed out it was destroying me. In a way at times, I still allow her to, but I don't let her know that she can get to me like that for her own pleasure.
It is said time and time again, WAS' thrive on the misery they inflict upon those they left to justify who they are now and how they act.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11