With a MIL like that, I'd be happy to be rid of the H.
Maybe if you didn't nag or judge him, he'd stay with you so that he could do whatever the hell he wanted while you looked the other way and were happy about it? WTF-ever.
Sorry, I have an aversion to MILs. That's the brightest spot in my separation - no dealing with my MIL.
Me - 30, H - 32 T - 10, M - 6, D - 1 DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2 on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10) Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011