Oh my Lord...So only you have to change and your exh is just fine because God loves him? It's ok to date a married woman because her family "was having trouble" anyway, I can't quote scripture but I'm not sure what book of the Bible that would be in.
All I can say is WOW, that is one screwed up family...
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."