Trying to detach from the madness!

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I was feeling ok the past few days. Trying to only think about baby and what I need to do for her.

A few weeks ago I sent an email to MIL. Her and I had gotten into it on the phone right before that because I was sick of her telling me how great exh was doing, how he was going to church, how he stopped drinking, and how he was dating a nice girl with 3 kids. I couldn't stand it. I said he was none of the above. He was still drinking and was dating a married woman. She had all kinds of excuses. Of course I couldn't stop there and I sent her an email saying he only tells her what she wants to hear, this womans family is breaking apart, and its a tragedy. I also said I was disappointed in the lack of family support for me after he found out about the dui details. Nobody had the guts to do it, yet got so upset when he drank and drove.

She must have just read it and here are a few parts to her response to me last night:
"There may be a lot I don't know and don't want to. I much prefer to pray and fast for him. The family I heard of was already torn apart. Maybe there are things you don't know!. you have a lot of spiritual and mentaly growing to do. If you listen to what Jesus tells you maybe someday with a changed heart exh might want to have a life with you. You have to be willing to accept him as God does, without jealousy, judgements, nagging or whatever causes you to react to his behavior. If you love someone it has to be unconditionally as God loves us. He always hates the sin but never the sinner. God's word tells us how to live and we all have changing to do always ....................IT IS A FULL TIME JOB CHANGING OURSELVES SO WE SHOULDNT' HAVE TIME TO BE INTO OTHERS BUSINESS. AND IF YOU HAVE PEOPLE TELLING WHAT exh IS DOING OR NOT DOING THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS AND YOU SHOULD STAY AWAY FROM THEM AND TELL THEM"

Once again MIL throws her faith in my face but does nothing to her son. Sorry she is a hypocrite. She doesn't know what he tries to pull with me. Mil, people talk about your son because he is such a screwup! Not because of me.