He probably is leary about getting into a R anytime soon. Some men think "all" women are out looking for a serious committment. It would be easy to "rebound" for both of you but as long as you watch your emotions in that department, I think going out with somebody would be great. But now that you've made the first step, wait for him to make the next and ask you out. You don't need to pursue the next step. If he doesn't ask, then don't take it personally......he just got burned really bad and isn't ready to go out with a woman, yet. Hopefully, he is and the two of you will enjoy a nice date.

Your XH may not be in MLC but he definately "was" and "is" a walk-away husband......b/c that is what he did....right? So, you can eliminate that quesion from the list. However, as we've discussed in the past....the MLC & WAS is so close in symptoms, that I think some may put too much emphasis on it. Just accept the end results as they are and don't try to put in a catergory.

Talk to you later. Have a good day.

Sandi

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!